The first bad choice and the invitation that changes everything

Based on a sermon on Genesis 3 by Pastor Michael Leader of Beverly Hills Baptist Church

It’s the question that echoes through all of human history: Why is the world so broken?

We read the first pages of the story and see a world bursting with purpose, crafted by a God of power. A world made for our enjoyment, where a loving Father walks with his children in a garden. Everything is in harmony. We are known, we are safe, and we feel no shame.

And then, it all goes horribly, horribly wrong.

The story of how it all fell apart is found in Genesis 3. It’s a sad story, full of loss and blame. But buried in the wreckage is a stunning truth about God’s character—perhaps the most important truth of all. It’s a truth that hinges on a single choice made in a garden, and it leads directly to a new choice offered to every one of us today.

A world without shame

The story of the fall picks up where Genesis 2 leaves off: “Adam and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.”

This isn’t just about a lack of clothing. It’s about a lack of fear. Think of a small child, completely at ease in their own skin, running around without a care. They live in a state of perfect trust. They haven’t yet learned that the world can be a dangerous place, that people can hurt them, or that they have anything to hide. They are innocent, living in complete harmony with the ones who love and provide for them.

This was Adam and Eve. Not children, but adults living under the complete care of their Father in a world built for them. They were naked, and they were unashamed. Their intimacy with God and with each other was unbroken.

Until a new voice entered the garden.

The serpent’s ‘wisdom’

“Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the LORD God had made.”

The word “crafty” here is fascinating. In other parts of the Bible, the same Hebrew word is translated as “prudent” or “shrewd”—and it’s seen as a good thing. A prudent person sees danger and avoids it. A simple or naïve person walks right into it.

The serpent wasn’t just a talking snake; it was a creature that possessed a kind of wisdom Adam and Eve lacked. It had an experienced knowledge of good and evil. They were innocent; it was not.

The serpent begins its attack with a clever question, designed to sow a seed of doubt. “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?”

It’s a distortion, of course. But it works. It forces Eve to defend God’s rule, and in the process, she adds to it, saying they weren’t even supposed to touch the tree. The conversation has already shifted. Suddenly, God’s one boundary feels less like a loving protection and more like a restriction.

Then comes the direct lie, wrapped in a half-truth. “You will not surely die… For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”

The real temptation

Here is the heart of it all. The temptation wasn’t to do something inherently evil. After all, gaining wisdom and the knowledge of good and evil is something the Bible later praises. God himself has this knowledge.

The temptation was about how and when that knowledge was gained.

Satan only ever tempts us with good things, doesn’t he? But they are good things taken at the wrong time, or from the wrong source. It’s the desire for intimacy outside the commitment of marriage. It’s the hunger for success at the cost of our integrity. It’s stealing what we want now instead of waiting patiently for the Giver of all good gifts to provide.

God wasn’t holding out on Adam and Eve. But they weren’t ready for that kind of knowledge. They chose to grab for wisdom on their own terms, listening to the voice of a creature instead of their Creator. Had they trusted God and rejected the serpent, they would have learned their first, real lesson in discerning good from evil – God’s way.

Instead, they took, and they ate.

The blame game

“Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realised they were naked.”

They grew up in an instant. But it was a traumatic, painful kind of growing up. Their innocence was shattered, replaced by shame. Their first instinct? To cover up and to hide. From each other, and from God.

It’s what we’ve all been doing ever since.

I remember when my son was little, he got into trouble at school for hitting. When I asked him about it, he spun an elaborate tale of self-defence. He wasn’t afraid of being punished again; he was already in trouble. He was afraid of the shame of admitting he’d done something wrong. The humiliation of it.

That’s the feeling that sent Adam and Eve hiding among the trees.

And then, God does the most amazing thing. He doesn’t come with a sword. He comes with a question.

“Where are you?”

He calls them out of hiding, not to crush them, but to give them a chance to come clean. Instead, the blame game begins.

“The woman you put here with me—she gave me some fruit,” Adam says. He points the finger at both his wife and God.

“The serpent deceived me,” Eve says, passing the blame down the line.

Excuses. Finger-pointing. A refusal to own the choice they made. What would have happened if they’d just said, “I’m sorry”? We’ll never know.

A glimmer of hope in the ruins

The consequences were devastating. A curse fell over creation. Hardship, pain, and death entered the story. They were banished from the garden. An angel with a flaming sword now guarded the way back to the tree of life. The path to eternal life, on their own terms, was closed forever.

They chose to be like God, but their choice left them looking less like him than ever before. Broken. Shameful. Afraid.

And yet. That’s not where the story ends.

Even in this moment of judgment, God reveals his greatest attribute: grace. The first death in this chapter isn’t Adam or Eve’s. It’s an animal’s.

“The LORD God made garments of skin for Adam and his wife and clothed them.”

They tried to cover their own shame with flimsy fig leaves. It wasn’t enough. So God himself provides a covering. He does for them what they could not do for themselves. It required a sacrifice. Something had to die so that they could live. It was the first, faint echo of a greater plan.

A new invitation

That first choice – to take and eat from the wrong tree – led to separation and death. It’s a choice we have all inherited, a brokenness that runs through the heart of the world.

But God wasn’t finished.

He stepped into our story as a new Adam, Jesus. At the very start of his work, he faced the same serpent and the same temptation. To take the good things of God the wrong way, to seize power without the path of suffering. Jesus said no.

And then, on his last night, he offered us a new choice. He took bread, gave thanks, and gave it to his friends. His invitation echoes through the centuries, turning the first tragic choice on its head.

“Take and eat; this is my body.”

He offered them a new tree to eat from: the tree of his own life, given for them. He offers a new covenant, poured out for the forgiveness of sins.

Coming to him is scary. It means we have to come out of hiding. We have to show up naked, with no excuses and no flimsy fig leaves. It means dropping the pride and the blame game, and simply saying, “I’m sorry. I got it wrong. I need you.”

It leaves you completely vulnerable. But you are vulnerable before the God of grace.

The God of second chances.

He invites you to take and eat again – but to choose the right tree this time. To choose him. To let him cover your shame and be your guide. To finally enjoy this world, and the next, the way you were always meant to.

He’s already done the hard part. All you have to do is stop hiding, and ask.

Will you take and eat?

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How to know you’re a Christian: a heart-check, not a checklist

It’s a question that can echo in the quiet moments. In the middle of the night. After a church service that didn’t quite connect.

Am I a Christian? Really?

It’s a deep, personal question. And it deserves a real answer.

In a world of noise, it’s easy to get confused. Maybe you grew up in the church. Maybe you try to be a good person, to help others, to do the right thing. These are good things.

But they aren’t the thing.

Being a Christian isn’t a cultural identity you inherit. It’s not a moral standard you achieve. And it’s certainly not a list of rules you follow perfectly.

It’s less a checklist, more a heart-check.

It’s a relationship. Real, life-altering, and rooted in one person: Jesus Christ.

So, how do you know? Let’s get straight to the heart of it.

The starting point: acknowledging the gap

We all feel it. That sense that something isn’t quite right. A gap between the person we want to be and the person we sometimes are. The Bible has a word for this: sin. It’s not just the big, bad things. It’s the falling short, the turning away from God’s perfect way to do things our own way.

The first step in any real journey is knowing where you stand.

A Christian has faced this reality. They’ve looked honestly at their own heart and acknowledged their need for something—or Someone—bigger than themselves to bridge that gap. They understand that on their own, they can’t make themselves right with a holy God.

It’s a moment of honesty. A moment of humility.

And it’s the place where hope begins.

The turning point: faith in action

This is the heartbeat of it all.

Christianity isn’t a self-improvement program. It’s a rescue mission. The good news—the Gospel—is that God didn’t leave us in that gap. He came to us. Jesus, God’s Son, lived a perfect life, died a death He didn’t deserve, and rose again, defeating sin and death for good.

He did the work. Our part is simply to believe it.

The Bible puts it this way: “If you declare with your mouth, ‘Jesus is Lord,’ and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.” (Romans 10:9)

It’s a single, powerful step of faith. A moment of surrender. It’s trading your own efforts for His finished work. It’s turning from running your own life and asking Jesus to be the Lord of your life. The leader. The Saviour.

Have you had that moment? Have you, in the quiet of your own heart, placed your trust entirely in Him?
That’s the core of it. Everything else flows from this.

The evidence: a changed life

When this heart-change is real, it shows. Not overnight. Not perfectly. But it begins to ripple through your life.

It’s not about being perfect. It’s about being His.

Here are a few signs that your faith is alive and growing:

A new direction. You have a growing desire to please God. Reading the Bible, praying, and learning about Jesus start to feel less like chores and more like necessities. You’re not just avoiding bad things; you’re actively wanting to pursue good things.

A new battle. You become more aware of the sin in your own life—and you hate it. The struggle is real, but the difference is, now you’re fighting on God’s side. The struggle itself is evidence that something has changed.

A new love. You begin to feel a genuine love for other Christians. A pull towards community, towards God’s family, the Church. You want to be with people who are on the same journey.

A new fruit. Your life begins to show evidence of God’s Spirit at work. Things like love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23). You won’t master them all at once, but you’ll see them start to grow. Like green shoots in spring.

What if I’m still not sure?

Doubt is not the opposite of faith; it can be part of it. The great heroes of the Bible had moments of doubt. The question is, where do you take your doubt?

Don’t let it fester in the dark. Bring it into the light.

If you’ve read this and a desire is stirring in your heart… a desire to close the gap, to trust in Jesus, to be made new… you don’t have to wait.

Talk to God. Right now. Right where you are. Tell Him you believe. Tell Him you’re sorry for doing things your own way. Ask Him to be your Lord and Saviour.

It’s a conversation that changes everything.

And if you need someone to talk to, we’re here.

You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to take the first step.

Are you ready to take it?

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The importance of a daily quiet time

A daily quiet time is a vital practice. It helps us connect with God and recharge our spirits. It also allows us to navigate life’s challenges with confidence. In this post, we’ll explore practical steps to help you develop a consistent and meaningful daily quiet time.

Why a Daily Quiet Time Matters

Before we dive into the ‘how,’ let’s remind ourselves of the ‘why.’ A daily quiet time:

  • Strengthens our faith and intimacy with God (Psalm 46:10)
  • Renews our minds and transforms our thinking (Romans 12:2)
  • Equips us to face life’s challenges with courage and wisdom (Proverbs 3:5-6)
  • Fosters a deeper understanding of God’s Word and His will for our lives (2 Timothy 3:16-17)

Step 1: Choose a Consistent Time and Place

  1. Find a quiet, distraction-free spot where you can meet with God daily (e.g., a corner in your bedroom, a local park, or your car).
  2. Set a regular time that works for you, ideally at the start of your day (e.g., first thing in the morning or during your lunch break).
  3. Commit to making this time non-negotiable, just as you would any other essential appointment.

Step 2: Prepare Your Heart and Mind

  1. Start by asking the Holy Spirit to guide and illuminate your time with God (John 16:13).
  2. Take a few moments to calm your mind and focus on God’s presence (Psalm 131:2).
  3. Confess any sin or distractions that are hindering your relationship with God (1 John 1:9).

Step 3: Read and Think on God’s Word

  1. Select a Bible reading plan or devotion that suits your learning style (e.g., a daily Bible study app, a devotional book, or a specific book of the Bible).
  2. Read the selected passage slowly and intentionally, taking note of key verses or insights.
  3. Consider how God’s Word applies to your life, asking questions like:
  4. What does this passage teach me about God’s character?
  5. How can I apply this truth to my current circumstances?
  6. What prayer or action step can I take in response?

Step 4: Pray and Listen

  1. Share your thoughts, concerns, and gratitude with God in prayer (Philippians 4:6).
  2. Take time to listen for God’s gentle whisper. Pay attention to any impressions, ideas, or scriptures that come to mind (1 Kings 19:12).
  3. Journal your prayers, thoughts, and insights to track your spiritual journey and consider God’s faithfulness.

Step 5: Make it a Sustainable Habit

  1. Start small and be consistent, even if it’s just 10-15 minutes a day.
  2. Find accountability with a friend or prayer partner to encourage and support you.
  3. Be patient and kind to yourself when you miss a day – simply acknowledge the setback and refocus.

Conclusion

Developing a daily quiet time takes intention, but the rewards are immeasurable. As you cultivate this habit, you’ll experience:

  • Deeper intimacy with God
  • Increased faith and trust
  • Greater peace and clarity
  • A more Christ-like mind and heart

Remember, your daily quiet time is a personal, sacred space to connect with your Heavenly Father. Be flexible, and don’t be discouraged if your routine evolves over time. The key is to focus on your relationship with God and make time for Him each day.

Reflection Questions

  1. What are the biggest obstacles that prevent me from having a consistent daily quiet time?
  2. How can I incorporate worship, gratitude, or confession into my quiet time?
  3. What Bible study resources or devotionals have helped me grow in my faith?

Prayer

Dear Heavenly Father,

Thank you for inviting us into a personal relationship with You. Help us to focus on our daily quiet time, that we grow in intimacy, faith, and wisdom. Guide us by Your Holy Spirit, and our time with You be a source of strength, peace, and joy. Amen.

Additional Resources

  • Bible study apps: YouVersion, Our Daily Bread, or Bible Gateway
  • Devotional books: “My Utmost for His Highest” by Oswald Chambers or “Jesus Calling” by Sarah Young
  • Prayer journals: Moleskine or a digital note-taking app

Feel free to share your favourite quiet time resources or tips in the comments below!

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4 ways to strengthen your relationship with God

In the chaos and demands of daily life, we often neglect our relationship with God. This neglect leaves us yearning for a deeper spiritual connection.

If you’re feeling this spiritual disconnect, you’re not alone.

Here are four powerful tips to help you cultivate a stronger relationship with God:

1. Quiet Time in Prayer and Gratitude

Set aside daily time to talk to God, expressing your hopes, fears, and desires. Find a peaceful space to pour your heart out. Remember to thank Jesus for the blessings in your life.

2. Serve Others

In Matthew 25, Jesus teaches us that serving others is serving Him. Look for opportunities to help those in need, whether through volunteering or simply being there for a friend.

3. Community with Fellow Christians

Share your faith journey with others through church services, small groups, or Bible study sessions. This provides spiritual accountability, guidance, and friendship.

4. Listen to Worship Music

Worship music can evoke praise and adoration, drawing you into a deeper relationship with God. Engage with the lyrics and let the music lead you in a spirit of worship.

Growing closer to God requires intention, dedication, and an open heart. Incorporate these practices into your daily life. You’ll embark on a journey towards spiritual growth. You will also develop a deeper connection with God.

Remember, your relationship with God is unique and personal. Embrace the journey, knowing that God’s love for you is unchanging, and He eagerly awaits your approach with open arms.

As you take these steps toward spiritual growth, we pray you’ll experience the blessing of a deeper relationship with Jesus.

Next Steps:

  • Explore our resources on prayer, fasting, and serving others
  • Join a small group or Bible study session
  • Listen to worship music and think about the lyrics
  • Share your faith journey with a friend or family member

Want to know more about the Bible or what it means to be a Christian? Contact Pastor Michael Leader on 0414 810 138.

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